From yesterday..

Thank you for all of your comments. I saw her again last night having been under a general, she just didn't want to be knocking around home- thinking about things. We were at kinder and she was busy. I agree with your comments and a plant is perfect - particularly as she is a keen gardener (not my first thought because I kill everything even ivy!) A white standard rose will be heading her way which will fit in well into her garden. Thank you for your thoughts